1. Hello,


    New users on the forum won't be able to send PM untill certain criteria are met (you need to have at least 6 posts in any sub forum).

    One more important message - Do not answer to people pretending to be from xnxx team or a member of the staff. If the email is not from forum@xnxx.com or the message on the forum is not from StanleyOG it's not an admin or member of the staff. Please be carefull who you give your information to.


    Best regards,

    StanleyOG.

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  2. Hello,


    You can now get verified on forum.

    The way it's gonna work is that you can send me a PM with a verification picture. The picture has to contain you and forum name on piece of paper or on your body and your username or my username instead of the website name, if you prefer that.

    I need to be able to recognize you in that picture. You need to have some pictures of your self in your gallery so I can compare that picture.

    Please note that verification is completely optional and it won't give you any extra features or access. You will have a check mark (as I have now, if you want to look) and verification will only mean that you are who you say you are.

    You may not use a fake pictures for verification. If you try to verify your account with a fake picture or someone else picture, or just spam me with fake pictures, you will get Banned!

    The pictures that you will send me for verification won't be public


    Best regards,

    StanleyOG.

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  1. kittysub4Dom

    kittysub4Dom Porn Surfer

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    whats the deal with just sending someone a pm like this?

    subject: hi
    body: how are you?

    I mean whats the point if thats all the effort you are going to put in?
     
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    1. Aqua Marine
      I prefer that over some of the ones I've gotten. Good Lord.
       
      Aqua Marine, Jul 21, 2022
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    2. dinny
      Unfortunately most of those kind of PMs are written by posters who got a F for effort in messaging in college. Pointing it out only increases bad behavior. Bots give better PMs that humans statistically.
       
      dinny, Jul 22, 2022
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  2. mstrman

    mstrman Porn Star

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    Have you read the rules? The explanation is there.
     
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    2. mstrman
      No but to answer her question.
       
      mstrman, Jul 21, 2022
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    3. kittysub4Dom
      if there is a rule about how to send someone a PM I can't find it so no idea what this guy is talking about :kiss_ass_sheep:
       
      kittysub4Dom, Jul 21, 2022
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    4. paulavettbrothers
      There is no rule about pms but there is certainly common sense things to do, like have something to say. Lol.
       
      paulavettbrothers, Jul 21, 2022
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  3. kittysub4Dom

    kittysub4Dom Porn Surfer

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    have you?
     
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      When I first started yes.
       
      mstrman, Jul 21, 2022
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  4. latecomer91364

    latecomer91364 Easily Distracte

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    I ignore those. The person knocks on your door and expects you to start the conversation.
    Sorry (not sorry) I don't want to.
     
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  5. dumjed

    dumjed Porn Star

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    So how should one start a conversation? I think you should be somewhat polite when you start unless you are answering something very specific
     
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    2. Aqua Marine
      Why did I expect a serious answer in this group?
       
      Aqua Marine, Jul 22, 2022
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    3. paulavettbrothers
      This is not the editorial page at the WSJ. Lol.
       
      paulavettbrothers, Jul 22, 2022
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    4. sirius1902
      Lmao... just being stupid today...
       
      sirius1902, Jul 22, 2022
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    5. CheddarGoblin
      I was also kinda curious about what HOH meant. I guess I'm too vanilla to know the finer details of various dom/sub relationships (and probably bore the OP).

      @submissively speaking, Definitely not all those questions at once, lol. I was thinking choose one, so the ice breaker is more personable than, "how are you?"

      On a side note, it's probably good I post more in the forum. I don't know if it's due to working from home or what, but I've found several instances where I could have communicated more clearly. I need practice talking to more than just my dog.
       
      CheddarGoblin, Jul 22, 2022
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    6. submissively speaking
      I feel you there. :)
       
      submissively speaking, Jul 22, 2022
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  6. SoutheastUSofA

    SoutheastUSofA Adorably adorable

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    I'm not a girl, but I know the women here get inundated with PM's and I think most of the messages are just throwing a line out and hoping something will bite. I think if you are going to message someone and you start the conversation then it's up to you to start with something funny, interesting, or an observation you've made about something the person posted on here.


    Or.....maybe I'm totally wrong!
     
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    1. submissively speaking
      You are, by far, the best first message writer I’ve ever had the pleasure to answer. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
       
      submissively speaking, Jul 22, 2022
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    2. SoutheastUSofA
      You're making me blush.
       
      SoutheastUSofA, Jul 22, 2022
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    3. submissively speaking
      You’re pretty cute when you blush. C’mere. ;)
       
      submissively speaking, Jul 22, 2022
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  7. DirtyDad9

    DirtyDad9 Sex Lover

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    Hi, how is your day going?
     
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  8. StrawberryCupcake

    StrawberryCupcake ⭐️Cheese Tease⭐️

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    I assume they want to know how you are but I’m not a psychic.
     
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    2. StrawberryCupcake
      So psychotic? :biggrin:
       
      StrawberryCupcake, Jul 21, 2022
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    3. paulavettbrothers
      Are psychotic folks insightful? Maybe insightful into things that don’t exist?
       
      paulavettbrothers, Jul 21, 2022
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    4. CheddarGoblin
      Maybe psychedelic
       
      CheddarGoblin, Jul 22, 2022
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  9. kittysub4Dom

    kittysub4Dom Porn Surfer

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    good
     
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    1. paulavettbrothers
      Would you like to come with me to get some fresh veggies and fruit @kittysub4Dom?
       
      paulavettbrothers, Jul 21, 2022
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    2. MacDaddyDiesel
      Is that how you always respond to general greetings? With one word answers? Lol
       
      MacDaddyDiesel, Aug 9, 2022
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  10. paulavettbrothers

    paulavettbrothers Xnxx lifer

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    Hey, hi, hello. I’m tired as fuck but it’s because I drank too much last night. On the wagon today. Off to get some good veggies and fruit today.
     
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  11. ironside2011

    ironside2011 Porn Star

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    Totally agree
     
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  12. thinskin

    thinskin Porn Star Banned!

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    I do not answer anyone with less than 200 posts........it avoids this sort of nonsense.

    thinskin
     
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  13. Jack Mine

    Jack Mine The Pope of Assholiness

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    I’m usually polite when I PM a new female member. I’ll welcome them to the forums and wish them the very best and tell them to have fun here.

    After the polite bullshit is out of the way I’ll ask if she has any pictures of her tits, or if she’s a spitter or a swallower. But only after I welcome her here. Politeness is the first most important thing to do
     
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    2. Odins own
      Jack Mine ...I'm so glad to see you're back on your meds :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
       
      Odins own, Jul 21, 2022
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    3. Jack Mine
      Never got off them ;)
       
      Jack Mine, Jul 21, 2022
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    4. paulavettbrothers
      This is you ON meds?
       
      paulavettbrothers, Jul 21, 2022
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    5. phxbi_bear80
      I agree...I can do mean very well, but I don't like that about myself unless I have to be
       
      phxbi_bear80, Jul 22, 2022
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    6. dinny
      @Jack Mine ... you should use the Pope GIF when asking if they spit or swallow.
       
      dinny, Jul 22, 2022
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  14. naughtyguy4u

    naughtyguy4u Traveling Vaginal Dilator Therapist

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    I usually say……

    Howdy!

    Wanna talk about my avatar?

    I get little to no responses for some reason?:confused1:
     
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    1. Dirty jedi
      Your avatar just reminds women why they don't need a man when Bob can take control
       
      Dirty jedi, Jul 21, 2022
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    2. naughtyguy4u
      Actually I think Bob keeps asking about my avatar. :eek:
       
      naughtyguy4u, Jul 21, 2022
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    3. paulavettbrothers
      You got my attention.
       
      paulavettbrothers, Jul 21, 2022
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  15. Dirty jedi

    Dirty jedi Believe the hype Banned!

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    Dullness is the death of enthusiasm
    I may be a crazy antisocial fuck weasel
    But I am never dull
     
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    1. Jack Mine
      Don’t forget you’re also hung like a donkey :rolleyes:
       
      Jack Mine, Jul 21, 2022
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    2. Dirty jedi
      Oh I wasn't listing attributes
      Just saying if I was to send a pm
      It's generally memorable or so insane you reply just to wonder what the fuck I am smoking
       
      Dirty jedi, Jul 21, 2022
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  16. WantSumCandyLittleGirl

    WantSumCandyLittleGirl Candyman

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    Would you rather the PM say:

    Hey, slut. Wanna fuck?
     
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    1. phxbi_bear80
      Very few would rather guys say that, but they are usually pretty obvious from the jump
       
      phxbi_bear80, Jul 22, 2022
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  17. phxbi_bear80

    phxbi_bear80 Abu el Banat

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    I am not a fan of someone that messages like that, unless they have already stated that they are shy or maybe not comfortable with conversations at first...though I'm not a woman.
    Sex site or not, at least try to be unique, original, or at least true to yourself that you would be if talking face to face.

    Also, some fools just ain't got no game! :D
     
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  18. Aqua Marine

    Aqua Marine Sugar & Spice

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    Just got one that said "Hello have any pix?" and nothing else.
     
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    1. dinny
      He might be on some kind of XNXX probation and limited to four words or less per post.:O_o:
       
      dinny, Jul 22, 2022
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