My husband read something about selling a video and book on how to eat pussy for $87.00 but today you could get it for $49.00 that day in the advertisement it states 88% of women are not happy or fulfilled by the oral sex because not done correctly well fellow women i told my husband before i meet you i thought that was the best you bring skills and insanely fast orgams like no other. Now ladies please explain that some guy have no idea what there doing and you would rather them stop then continue my husband thinks it should be 2nd nature.

 

I thought I had a hard time understanding @Milo Cronos but I need to apologize to him after trying to figure this one out? But after reading this several times I'll give it a try. The first thing I wouldn't pay a fuckin time for the book and video. I grew up in a time when the only porn available to me was the Sears catalog then I got my hands on a playboy magazine and finally got to see a woman who wasn't wearing a bulletproof bra. I knew nothing about going down on a woman. Nobody told me and I never asked.

You wanna know how learned? I taught myself. It was something that my girlfriend wanted and I wanted to please her, because she was nice enough to always please me. So I got down there and moved my lips tongue and mouth taking my time exploring every inch of her pussy. And when she let out a little sigh or moan I knew I did something that made her feel good. But I didn't stop there and continue doing it over and over again. I moved on using my lips mouth and tongue finding out other things and places that made her feel good. Then little by little I put all those things together and then it suddenly dawned on me that she enjoyed when I used my fingers on her so I brought that into play. The way you learn is by taking your time and wanting to please your partner. No book can teach you that. And tell your husband the only thing that came 2nd nature to me was sucking cock. If you ever seen me the first time you'd think I've been doing it all my life.

 

I had jc penny catalog lol

 

...lol this is his wife...

 

I think I got good skills when it comes to eating pussy but if I'm going down on her n she wants me to do something different I take direction well too

 

If he needs a book, it's probably too late

 

Every woman ive been with says they can tell i know how to eat pussy as soon as i kiss them...i dont eat pussy tho...i DEVOUR pussy

 

If some men are bad at eating pussy, then either a) their partner isn't telling them what they like or b) their partner is giving them feedback and they aren't listening to it. It helps A LOT of women verbally say what they want and don't rely on sighs and moans to communicate. Be specific.

 

I would have to disagree that "nothing sexual" is second nature, we experience love almost immediately and are reminded of it's worth and taught it's virtue for the rest of our lives. Sex is barely taught by the parents, anecdotally shared by our peers and the schools at best are allowed to teach only the biological components. Leaving sex to be learned either on our own either academically or through trial and error, which can be disastrous given that our teacher(s) may be horrible at it themselves and we're too naive to understand that they are?

Take for example anal and oral sex both of which require a bit of skill:

1. Anyone who has allowed themselves to be butt fucked the first time poorly through no fault of their over excited and uneducated lover who goes too fast without enough lube or foreplay. May imprint that anal is inherently painful which many have already heard from others who have suffered the same ill fate before to an inexperienced lover for which a future lover with better skills will never be able to share because of that first experience?
2. Oral sex while being mechanically simple to figure out comes with a whole other list of nuances that the inexperienced lover may not know or even be prepared to adapt to given that their lover doesn't express or know how to explain why it isn't causing the ecstatic feeling. Leaving the "it's better to give then recieve" lover with a false sense of accomplishment that a more experienced lover may not appreciate or may not even want as much?

All this to say that again, nothing in sex is second nature more then the first person account of our performance and not our subjective recounting of the same sexual event!

 

I dont stop licking until she is dripping

 

I've been given oral by men who can't find my clit. I didn't like it.

 

My skills are just barely good enough to get by!

 

The last time I went down on my wife, I looked up to see her giggling. Fuck, I need the book.

 

like i'v said i love to eat pussy. and every girl is diff. so i start with my basic thing when i go down on a new girl and see if she likes what i'm doing or change it up if she doesn't. and i ask her what she likes then do that. I'ts all about her.

 

If a guy can't satisfy me orally, I bet I can teach him better than a book and video. My last boyfriend was very inexperienced when we first met and quite honestly, he wasn't very good at oral sex (actually he was very good at receiving it, just not so great at giving it). But it didn't take long for him to get the hang of it and when we broke up he was quite good at it. He was very good at picking up signals I didn't even know I was sending.

 

Ironically that has seemed to be one of the 'things' i was blessed with. Usually when i find someone im interested in and am with them for the first time....i'll Only do a little foreplay, then Oral on them. After they've pulled the headboard off the wall in Glee, i get up and tell them i have an early appt. and have to leave...but will call them. 100% of the time, my phone is 'Lit up' the next day....asking if they can see me that night?? One woman started calling me the 'Pussy Whisperer'. Strangely, I ended up hooking up with one of her friends about 8 months later, and as we were in the advanced stages of foreplay, she says to me.....'I heard you are a pussy whisperer'....i was a tad embarressed. If you are talented at Oral....the World is your oyster : )

 

same here i think some guys are scared of pussy

 

communication for sure i know if i was dis pleasing i would want to know

 

communication for sure i know if i was dis pleasing i would want to know

 

I think you should spend the money on a grammar book, it will help more.